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My Mother’s Thieboudienne and the Lesson It Taught Me

My Mother’s Thieboudienne and the Lesson It Taught Me

My mother never used recipes. When I asked how much tomato paste went into her thieboudienne, she would wave her hand and say, “Until it’s red enough.”

Thieboudienne is Senegal’s gift to the world. Fish stuffed with parsley, garlic, and chili, cooked in tomato sauce with broken rice and vegetables. Cassava, carrots, cabbage, eggplant. Everything simmering together until the flavors marry.

As a child, I watched my mother make it every Sunday. She would wake early and walk to the fish market before the sun got hot. She knew which fishermen brought in the freshest catch. She would touch each fish, checking the eyes for clarity, the gills for redness.

Back home, the real work began. She pounded garlic and parsley in a wooden mortar. She stuffed the fish with her fingers, never measuring, always knowing exactly how much was enough. The rice absorbed the sauce slowly, turning orange-red and fragrant.

I asked her once why she never wrote anything down. She laughed and said, “Your hands will remember what paper forgets.”

She was right. Now I live in Paris for work, and when I miss home, I make thieboudienne. My hands remember. The feel of the fish, the smell of the tomato paste hitting hot oil, the patience of waiting for the rice to cook just right.

When I eat it, I am seven years old again, sitting on a mat in my mother’s courtyard, eating with my fingers, listening to the neighborhood sounds drift through the afternoon heat.

That is what food does. It carries us home.

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